Where Do I Fit In This Relationship? Queering Masculinity and Femininity

“Who’s the man in the relationship?” “So you’re the fem one, right? And she’s the Butch?” “Masc guys only.” Gender and Sexuality – you can’t talk about one without the other. Let’s examine the hetero-normative gender roles that often play out in Queer intimate relationships and how this might affect how we define ourselves and the expectations we may put on our partners.